The Other Side

I read an awesome blog tonight, which reminded me that it has been way too long since I've posted an update.  The reason?  I am now on "the other side."  My past no longer consumes me, and I've let go of most of the pain and anger that were once a part of my daily existence.  It has now been almost four years since I first found out my now-ex-husband was cheating on me.  I have learned that life DOES get better.  I am in love again, my children continuously fill our home with laughter, and I see happiness in my future.  It took a long time for me to get to where I am today, and I still sometimes mourn the loss of the dream I had for my family, but I am now on the other side.  To every woman who is in the midst of the pain and fallout caused by infidelity...YOU will get here too.  And life is pretty good on the other side.